Ok this too is coming from someone I know. They have been married for 3 yrs or so and both she and him are great people. They have their flaws and what not but all in all good people. She is always online complaining how she wished she had a more romantic husband and she always feels alone and blah blah. She was the girl in high school constantly talking about marriage and didn't talk about her dream guy just her dream life and the guy didn't matter. I mean she had her wedding dress her junior year of high school and she didn't even have a boyfriend! Now she is married to a guy that loves her and though he isn't perfect he tries. Even if he wasn't all that he deserves better than to be degraded because he isn't mister perfect from a movie. Seriously?? Be thankful he isn't cruel, abusive in any form, greedy, or anything else. Not to mention he is a very handsome man... and she is complaining!!! I love My husband! No he isn't the sweetest or most romantic but he does things that I know are for me only and he works his butt off to support me, let's me do whatever I want, always puts my son and I first, puts up with all my issues and attitude problems and he never complains!! I am honest to God not lying when I say I couldn't not have dreamed up a better man! He is my other half and exactly perfect for me! And I can't live without him. Even when we are fighting mad he is exactly what I need. This is how all married people should feel to me. If you don't feel some version of this towards your spouse then why are you getting married??? There is no reason to be degrading another person because of your expectations. I mean you have a house and just got a new car. Obviously your life isn't that bad. Why can't people just be happy they have what they have? If it is really that bad then change it! I know of someone that would love to be in her shoes with a loving husband.
Sorry just needed to vent! Hope you all have a great week! =D
