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Who says we have to feel a certain way when our children are born? Did you feel that instant bond? I don't believe it is actually instant. It is foreign... trying to associate a new name with this new person. They have no attributes for us to connect with yet. I don't believe that strong bond is there till later when they start becoming who they are. I do believe that we all have protective instincts and care for them but I think that is just the way we are programmed as mammals. This protectiveness is how most animals work. correct??  Anyway something to think about. =)